With all the talk about there being so many single, educated, successful black women, I think it’s important to note that our “credentials” don’t attract men. It’s our EXTERIOR that gets a man’s attention (smile, look, personality, non-bitchy attitude, confidence and overall attractiveness) and our INTERIOR (our love for God, family, friends, being honest, supportive, respectful, emotionally stable, goal-oriented) that keeps a man coming back for more. As a single, successful black woman, I went from 0 dates to many dates by making some changes to my “exterior” AND “interior” to meet, date and marry quality black men. This video focuses on the “exterior” or my beauty transformation (with before and after pics) and my book, Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating shares more of my specific changes I’ve made to have more options in my dating life. I just believe in taking personal accountability for my challenges in life, whether that be professional or personal relationships. But that’s just me!

This is from my weekly TV segment on ABC/NewsChannel8. The topic is how to attract love into your life this holiday season!!