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Table of Contents

Introduction

PART I. THE JOYS AND PAINS OF RELATIONSHIPS
  1. I Never Knew Eros (Sexual) Love Like This

2. Why I’m a S&M (Success and Money) Diva

3. Reaching My Beauty Potential

4. Strippin’ Ain’t Easy

5. I’m His Wife, Not His Girlfriend

PART II. THE DATING ACTION PLAN: Become the Woman Every Man Wants
 

6. Unpack Your Baggage – Learn from your past mistakes and move on with your life

7. Love Yourself First – Learn to love yourself and focus on your own happiness

8. Determine Your Relationship Market Value (RMV) – Assess the personal strengths that you bring to a relationship before you begin dating.

9. Fix Your Fatal Flaws – Work on eliminating the habits and traits that make you less attractive to men

10. Have a Life of Your Own – Have a purposeful, fun-filled life

11. Begin Your Beauty Transformation – Maximize your physical appearance

12. Embrace Your Sexuality – Understand the power and pleasure of sex

13. Two Necessities – A Good Job and Good Credit: Maintain both a successful career and financial stability

14. Expand Your Circle of Friends, Hang Out with Guys and Learn from Divas – Develop male friendships if you want to best understand men

15. Decide Whether to Accept a Role in His Life – Will you be happy with the type of relationship he is offering?… you decide

PART III. THE DATING ACTION PLAN: Find the Man that Every Woman Wants
 

16. Steer Clear of Unavailable Men – Avoid low-percentage relationship options

17. Determine His Value to You – Be clear about what you want in a mate and determine his value to you

18. Increase the Quantity and Quality of the Men You Meet – Learn the best methods for meeting men and increasing your number of dates

19. Know Where and How to Date Him – Determine good and bad first date locations, and learn how communication helps to secure the second date

20. Check Him Out – Get to know who he is before you become too serious

21. Learn to Stroke His Ego – Learn to befriend his ego; avoid ego-busters

PART IV. THE TRUTHS AND LESSONS LEARNED FROM DATING
 

22. The Truth about Men

  • Men Cheat on Women They Love
  • Men Really Don’t Want to Be Changed
  • Don’t Underestimate the Relationship between a Man and His Mother
  • Cooking Is Still Important to Modern Men
  • Kissing Tells You a Lot about His Feelings for You

23. The Truth about Love and Relationships

  • Romantic Love Is the Number One Illusion for Single Women
  • Relationships Are Opportunities for Spiritual Growth
  • The Majority of Your Romantic Relationships WILL Come to an End – Prepare for It

24. The Truth about “Open” Relationships

  • Redefining Marriage Relationships
  • Types of Open (Marriage) Relationships
  • Impact of Open Marriages
  • Is Open Marriage Adultery?
  • Are Open Relationships or an Open Marriage Right for You?

25. Conclusion. Dating Is a Competitive Sport Learn to Enjoy It!